Parenting young children is often described as one of the most challenging phases of a relationship. It’s a time [usually] filled with joy and love but also one that brings immense pressure.
The belief that we have no choice is often rooted in fear and a lack of awareness. It’s a mindset that can paralyse us, making it difficult to see the options available. This feeling is common in various aspects of life, from relationships and careers to personal growth and daily responsibilities.
Dysfunctional love often manifests in ways that seem self-sacrificial or considerate but are, in fact, detrimental to our well-being. The root of these behaviours can often be traced back to nervous system dysregulation and trauma responses, which compel us to act out of fear rather than love.